Caring for your parents in South Africa is simpler
if you have a system and checklists

THE OVERSEAS CAREGIVER'S GUIDE

GUIDANCE AND STEP BY STEP PRACTICAL APPLICATIONS FOR

Families who are

looking after parents abroad

Welcome!

What you'll Find inside The Overseas Caregiver's Guide

This isn’t just another ebook — it’s a companion for your caregiving journey. With 12 carefully structured chapters, the guide is packed with information, checklists, and tools to help you manage the unique challenges of supporting your parents from across the world.

Inside, you’ll discover:

✅ Step-by-step guidance on handling medical, financial, and daily care matters remotely.
✅ Practical checklists so you don’t miss important details when stress levels are high.
✅ Real-life strategies to make communication with family, doctors, and service providers smoother.
✅ Compassionate insights that acknowledge the emotional weight of caregiving across continents.

Each chapter is designed to give you clarity and confidence, helping you stay organised while feeling more connected and at peace with the decisions you make for your loved ones. Emotional support for you is important if you plan to help your parents in South Africa and having systems does that.

The foreword has been written by Dr Sulette Ferreira, a migration therapist in South Africa. Her details are inside the book.

A sneak peak as the 12 Chapters inside The Overseas Caregiver's Guide

Chapter 1 – Building Your Overseas Caregiving System
Create one clear system with shared calendars, contact lists, and digital folders so caregiving feels structured instead of overwhelming.

Chapter 2 – Finances Made Simple
Ease money stress by setting up safe habits, account alerts, and a simple monthly tracking system that protects your parents and brings you peace of mind.

Chapter 3 – Medical Aid & Health Records
Keep every doctor’s number, policy, and medication list at hand so health emergencies never catch you unprepared.

Chapter 4 – Home & Safety Essentials
From locks and lighting to trusted repair contacts, this chapter shows how to make your parent’s home safe and secure — even from afar.

Chapter 5 – Meals & Daily Living Support
Good nutrition and steady routines matter. Learn how to arrange meal deliveries, groceries, and daily support so your parents stay healthy and cared for.

Chapter 6 – Building a Local Support Network
Neighbours, community groups, drivers, and friends can be your eyes and ears on the ground. Discover how to connect with them for true peace of mind.

Chapter 7 – Care Packages & Connection from Abroad
Show your love with surprise deliveries, photo books, and thoughtful gestures that keep your parents feeling your presence across the miles.

Chapter 8 – Managing Accounts & Bills
Never stress about missed payments again. Set up a shared system for monthly and annual bills so everything is managed calmly and on time.

Chapter 9 – Communication for Peace of Mind
Technology doesn’t have to be scary. Simple check-in routines with WhatsApp, FaceTime, or photo sharing keep connection alive and stress low.

Chapter 10 – Paperwork, Filing & Legal Documents
Organise IDs, wills, power of attorney, and medical records into a system that prevents confusion and protects your parents when it matters most.

Chapter 11 – Assets, Insurance & Tax
Gain clarity on what your parents own, owe, and are insured for — and use that knowledge to reduce risks, save money, and prepare for the future.

Chapter 12 – Preparing for the Future
The toughest conversations bring the greatest calm. This chapter guides you through documenting funeral wishes and service cancellations with love and respect.

Q: How do I manage my parent’s legal documents in South Africa?

A: The Overseas Caregiver provides a digital legacy checklist to organise wills, living wills, and identity documents so you know where everything is stored and accessible.

Q: What are the first steps if my parent is suddenly hospitalised?

A: Expat caregiving is about have an emergency folder ready with their medical aid details, ID, and next-of-kin contacts. The guide includes a template for this emergency folder for supporting parents abroad.

Q: How do I prepare for end-of-life decisions?

A: The Overseas Caregiver provides sensitive guidance on wills, living wills, medical directives, and ensuring your parents’ wishes are respected. All these give emotional support for expats.

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About Me

I'M HERE TO HELP

Who can relate to the following...

Hi, I’m Janet. I’ve lived in Australia for over 20 years, but a big part of my heart always remained in South Africa with my parents. Over those years, I learned how to care for them from afar — through trial, error, perseverance, and systems that brought balance into my life and theirs.

In 2019, I lost my mom, and in early 2025, my dad passed too. Navigating end-of-life arrangements from a distance was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done — filled with tears, anguish, and tough lessons.

It also made me realise: there are so many other South African migrants abroad facing the same challenges, wishing for a little more structure and guidance. That’s why I created The Overseas Caregiver’s Guide — to share the tools and systems that gave me peace of mind, and to help you feel confident and calm as you care for your parents back home.

You don’t have to do this alone.

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